Truth about judgements is that they matter and that you care,
and you are not alone on this one, trust me.
Most of us out here care and judgments passed at us matter
No matter how many quotes we read about not caring what other people think of us,
no matter how many times we try to not let peoples opinions or judgements get to us,
unfortunately it does and thats because we are human.
Yes, we are human with feelings and we care and thats just it.
So being judged hurts,
it hurts being misunderstood by people before they even try understanding you,
it hurts being judged about an action you engage in before they even take the time to know your intent,
truth be told, I am afraid of judgements, I am afraid of being judged
but for how long can I stay behind the shadows of others
how long can we follow the pathway of what is expected of us, honestly, just how long can you live you life based on what others desire in pursuit to runaway from critics and judgements?
Not too long, really.
True, judgements hurt on a deeper level,
but you get tired, tired of running away and trying to fixup for people,
you get tired of playing by the rules and still getting critics and hearing voices that
"its still not enough"
But you know what, you will never be enough for someone who tries to see only faults in you,
you will never be enough for someone who sees life as a black and white, for someone who sees only the bad in things, you will never be enough.
so quit trying,
quit trying to please them
because you are only human.
Yes judgements hurt, but they make you stronger,
let it toughen you and not make you bitter,
let it teach you that pricks exist but you can survive them and keep moving,
I say..
Don't play by the rules, there is no one way to life,
and your life deserves to be lived and not by following expectations,
so do not ever be sorry or afraid for dreaming big or doing big,
Allow the critics in, let them throw judgments and turn around
and continue doing Big.
Because you are enough,
ps- this is me talking to MYSELF and well YOU.
🙌🏿🙌🏿