Communication

Communication is a two way stream, it requires the involvement of two parties and if one person is the only one putting in the effort, the relationship isn't really going anywhere. Yet we live in a society that lacks communicators, we have people who just want to form relationships without being emotionally invested. It's sad, it really is, because so many people are trying to guard their hearts, so many scared people, afraid to invest 'so much' because they are scared to be 'too hurt' at the end.

How many of you communicate?

Like truly communicate and invest yourself in.

I am not talking about basic communication like sharing memes and having surface level connection,

I am talking about the real deal; like your deepest fears, what scares you about yourself, your flaws, your insecurities, your goals, your likes and dislikes?

How many of you communicate at the basic level about what you even dream of to your best friend or sister, or any close one.

We do not

we lack communicators!

We are simply just sitting back and expecting,

expecting to be understood,

expecting to connect with people, but how we do we do that if we are not portraying our true self?

Real communication is by far the deepest connection you can build in a relationship,

it goes far, it leads to understanding one another, and a deeper level of compatibility and love.

And I personally don't know how relationships can be based without one,

be it family, friendships or romantic relationships.

Misunderstandings and complications all rise from lack of communications and we..

we lack communicators!

I am big on communication and I hate small talk,

sometimes I get bored easily of repeated 'wyd' messages and short talks.

When I ask 'how are you', I don't want an 'am okay' reply,

I want to know how you are doing mentally, physically and spiritually,

trust me, I can stay up talking about your fears, or what keeps me up night,

I want to know why you prefer chocolate ice cream but hate anything else chocolate,

I want to know how you got those scars during childhood and

what makes you happy or why you are stressed and sad,

I know you are strong or maybe you are saying " am okay" to sound strong,

I know most of you want to fight the battles and monsters in your life alone,

but I care, I just want to be there, I just want to understand and be understood.

and I am not sure if you understand my love for communication because,

because..

we lack communicators!

I am big on communication

are you ?

if not, why not ?